I'm traveling now from August 1 - 27. A few days ago, I was getting a bit of the type of CMNM experience I enjoy.. exposing 'accidentally' or nonchalantly to straight and or younger men.
Here's how it went. I stripped for a shower at a public changing room on Waikiki Beach. I'm not referring to the public restrooms, but to the old Natatorium (outdoor pool stadium) under which is there is the life guard station and male and female dressing room with open showers. Being under the old stadium bleachers (concrete), the huge room is very long with the open showers visible directly at the opposite end of the room as soon as you enter from a parking lot just outside. 
There were two other adult men there. I proceeded to get completely undress, laying my boardshorts on a bench. None of the other guys took off their clothes -- which kind of ridiculous if you ask me. One guy was even trying to wash his lower body while wearing cargo pants. It was cool when two Japanese teenagers, obviously tourists, came in and got into the shower.
Of course, they too kept their swimming trunks on the whole time, and even changed out of them by wrapping a towel around the waist and lowering their trunks, without exposing their butts or genitals. I enjoyed being the only naked guy in the dressing room, and I made sure they had a chance to get some glances of my half
swelled dick and butt.
By the way, the two boys' guarded self-protective behavior wasn't unusual for Japan. Most men do exactly the same in dressing rooms all over Japan. So they weren't just shy because we three others were adult American males. But since they do 'cover' their privates when they change clothes after swimming and sports, they also do not hesitate to undress/redress in public. As I live in Japan part of the time, I have had many, many chances to see single or groups of Japanese men and young men changing back into or removing their sports clothes. When they do so in groups - like soccer teams, baseball teams, they tend to want to 'show off' in front of their male counterparts. So it is often possible to see a lot of boy butt, and semi-exposed pubic hair, and so on. I have written about the experience else. Most recently I describe seeing a team of Japanese university-age dudes who play frisbee soccer getting aroused and semi-naked, or at least, excited and boisterous while changing. See more at my Kelly's Second Life (blog).
When I left the old dressing room (no lockers), I saw that one of the teen's mother was waiting just outside the men's changing room, standing beside her parked car. I just smiled and wondered if the boys would go back later and tell her about see the adult American man's dick (lol). I doubt it.. most Japanese youth are pretty cool about things. While they might do some things themselves, they don't typically hold it against someone for being a bit weird -- as long as they are NOT members of their own group.
Later, after going to the Max's Gym (gay sex club), I slept in the nude at my hostel. A nice Korean guy (aged 26) was opposite me. We had a nice conversation sitting there in the room along with our German roomie. Later, I helped him get some detergent for doing his laundry. He seemed grateful and smiled a lot. So when he got up before 6 to get ready to leave for Seoul, I made sure to have the sheet slipped down and my half-erect cock on display. Is that anyway to pay back a friend? (LOL)
The guys above me was a 22-year old blond German twink. He has a nice body and seems a little bit self-absorbed, but then why shouldn't he be? He slept each night in white knit boxers, and didn't seem to mind parading around the room in them. I doubt it was for my benefit since there were two German girls in the adjoining bunk room, and another German guy about the same age who arrived and took the bed where the Korean dude had been.
The other German guy was slim and had curly dark hair. I slept naked that night again, but there wasn't much opportunity to show anything to the new arrival. He was friendly enough, but he certainly didn't show any interest. Of course, you never know. He did seem to turn over often enough whenever I moved during the night, but he held the sheets tightly around his body, and never really looked over my way.
When I was a teenager, I once was invited over to stay with a church friend who was college-age. I was still in high school. I was so turned on that I snuck out of my bed and climbed under his and try to reach up and fondle his dick - which did get erect. It was a complete turn-on for me, and so it makes it difficult to sleep when I'm in the room with a hot guy even now. Back at the hostel, the lack of sleep and the time change caused me to eventually fall to sleep. The boys remained untouched.. at least by my hands (or tongue). LOL!
On Sunday, I was terribly sleepy but somehow managed to get up in time to go on the Gay
Catamaran Cruise - the one I tried to advertise as a CMNM event. Actually, it happens every week - so I (or the Guys Into CMNM group) is not the sponsor of the event, but hopefully just a large part of the participants. There ended up being a dozen men who went along for the 90 minute cruise, but I was the only one to get naked. Being a lone traveller, I was happy to have the attention and conversation from a few of the fellow passengers. The waves were too choppy that windy day, so the captain was not able to stop the boat for a swim - a time when a lot of passengers (although none of the crew) might have gotten naked. Too bad.
Tomorrow, I'm going over the Big Island. There are plenty of places to get naked -- primarily, I can be naked 24/7 at my vacation house. Also, there is a the famous clothing optional beach, Kehena Black Sands Beach, not too far away. Actually, it's easier to get naked almost anywhere on the shores around the Big Island - as long as you are discreet.
On Saturday, I'm picnicking at Kehena and hopefully a few good gay men will join me. On Sunday, it's the weekly Trance Dance Kehena Beach community gathering, which can also be very hot when a bunch of naked straight men (and women) starting getting high on the music and weed. I'll spend the day and night at Kalani which has a clothing optional pool along with outdoor jacuzzi / hot tubs, and sauna. The pool turns naked after 4:00 so it can be very stimulating when hot dads and single dudes venture out from their families and relationships for a little bit of naughtiness. Even if there is no sex, it's still a turn-on to be seen and to see straight and gay men and twinks.
On Monday and Tuesday, I'm planning on camping out in Kohala and visiting the nude beach at Beach 67 - next to Waialea Beach or Beach 69). I'll keep you updated.. if anything fun happens. Kelly (back in Hawaii after too long away......)
ADDITIONAL Posting and revisions to this blog entry were added Oct 2, 2009.
Just when I had expected to be heading to Kohala for some fun on the nude beach near Waialea and then later go camping, Hurricane Felicia reared her ugly head. But as she passed through the Hawaiian Island, the storm quickly lost power and became a tropical depression.
The effect for me was that I decided to stay at Kalani, the oceanside gay friendly resort on the Puna Coast, taking a room for two nights, instead of my usual camping tent. The place is owned by a gay man (who has started it with his long-time lover), so it's very gay-friendly, but not selectively for gays only. One nice thing is that the pool, sauna and jacuzzi area become clothing optional after 4pm each day. So I had some nice naked time in the sunshine - I could even take my Macbook to the pool deck and work online since WiFi is available.
While there are clothed people at the pool, and even more who pass by on their way to the dining hall or their rooms, I enjoyed watching a couple of staffers - one was a hottie Hawaiian guy about 25 years old - who climbed up in order to room excess, ripe coconuts and palm fronds from a tall tree next to the pool. The hottie was that interested in watching - he was too busy working - but I certainly kept my eyes peeled and my cock half-way swelled while he was working up as sweat, wearing nothing but boardshorts.
On Wednesday, I fly back to Honolulu but was only there the one night so I stayed at a Waikiki hotel on Kuhio. For whatever reason, they put me into the Penthouse Suite - 3 bedrooms, a small living and a full kitchen - just $60 for 1000 sq ft of space and I could only use one of the many beds. I found out later that the room normally is booking for $280 a night. Had I known, I would have gone out to get friends and thrown a party, which is exactly what I intend to do this Christmas -- see my most recent blog entries or visit:
CMNM (clothed male / naked male) Festa Weekend in Honolulu, Dec 28. 2019
